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hillgendorf7KP Admin • Jan 08, 2026 @ 7:24am

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Hi everyone, This is not a post I enjoy making or take lightly, but is unfortunately necessary now. **TL;DR:** Keep all your drama out of the Kandi Pad forum. This is a place for PLUR, and nothing else. If you need a refresher on PLUR, read our PLUR statement. **Over the past few weeks** I have noticed a large increase in the number of dramatic, sh-related, or otherwise inappropriate posts throughout the forum and an overall decrease in PLUR, specifically under the miscellaneous topic. As a result I will be implementing a **zero tolerance** policy on these sort of posts outside of the venting and drama topic (If you cannot see the venting and drama topic that means you are not allowed into the venting and drama topic). This will mean an increase in posts requiring approval, inappropriate posts and comments being deleted, and potential account bans for frequent offenders. The next steps, that I hope I won't have to take, would be age bans from the forum and potentially the site as a whole. If you need legitimate help, please refer to the bottom of the following post: https://kandipad.com/forum/announcements/venting-drama-forum-topic-is-back-55852159. Thank you.

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Keep it PLUR, always and in all ways!

This isn't just a suggestion, it's the very heartbeat of Kandi Pad. We are a community built on the unbreakable foundation of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect, and that spirit must shine through in every interaction, every post, every connection you make here.

Here's how we live and breathe PLUR on Kandi Pad:

Peace is our intention: We strive to create a calm, positive, and drama-free space. Disagreements should be handled respectfully and constructively, focusing on understanding rather than conflict. Let's be mindful of our words and actions, ensuring they contribute to a harmonious environment.
Love is our connection: We embrace empathy, kindness, and compassion for one another. Celebrate each other's joys, offer support during tough times, and remember that we are all part of the Kandi Pad family. Prejudice, hate speech, and negativity have no place here.
Unity is our strength: We value inclusivity and celebrate the diversity of our members. Regardless of background, beliefs, or interests, we come together through our shared appreciation for the Kandi culture and the spirit of connection. Let's build bridges, not walls, and learn from one another.
Respect is our foundation: We treat everyone with courtesy, consideration, and honor. This includes listening actively, acknowledging different perspectives, and refraining from personal attacks, harassment, or any behavior that diminishes another person's worth. Respect extends to privacy, boundaries, and the creative expressions shared within our community.

Living the PLUR life on Kandi Pad means:

Thinking before you post and ensuring your contributions align with our core values.
Being open-minded and willing to understand different viewpoints.
Offering help and support to your fellow Kandi kids.
Calling out negativity respectfully and contributing to a positive resolution.
Remembering that behind every username is a real person deserving of kindness.

Let the principles of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect guide every click, every comment, and every connection you make on Kandi Pad. This is what makes our community special, and it's up to each and every one of us to keep that flame burning bright!