Log In

Create!

ermm

marstheslug • Feb 28, 2025 @ 12:00pm

E

TW: SH so i’ve recently realised that cutting my fingertips doesn’t hurt so i keep doing it and it’s really difficult to stop but im trying 👍 but the urge was just too strong so i un-wrapped my “weapon of choice” (which i had wrapped to protect my fingers) and sadly gave myself quite a lot of new cuts but anyways ill live but this was in my spanish class and im assuming that the boys on my table (im the only afab on the table) were saying hi to eachother but kinda laughed when they all turned to be and went “r u sure YOU’RE alright [irl name]??” like patronisingly? and when i said “yeah?” one of them (we’ll call him Connor) went “if you say so!” and started to rub his fingertips together 😬 so yeah that cute 😙 ALSO 😭 one of my other friends does sh, so she knows how bad it is and i was doing like hand gestures while taking to her and im 100% sure she saw because she gave me a look :,) i don’t want a lecture guys 😭

0 267

General (Kandi)

Replies 3

Keep it PLUR, always and in all ways!

This isn't just a suggestion, it's the very heartbeat of Kandi Pad. We are a community built on the unbreakable foundation of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect, and that spirit must shine through in every interaction, every post, every connection you make here.

Here's how we live and breathe PLUR on Kandi Pad:

Peace is our intention: We strive to create a calm, positive, and drama-free space. Disagreements should be handled respectfully and constructively, focusing on understanding rather than conflict. Let's be mindful of our words and actions, ensuring they contribute to a harmonious environment.
Love is our connection: We embrace empathy, kindness, and compassion for one another. Celebrate each other's joys, offer support during tough times, and remember that we are all part of the Kandi Pad family. Prejudice, hate speech, and negativity have no place here.
Unity is our strength: We value inclusivity and celebrate the diversity of our members. Regardless of background, beliefs, or interests, we come together through our shared appreciation for the Kandi culture and the spirit of connection. Let's build bridges, not walls, and learn from one another.
Respect is our foundation: We treat everyone with courtesy, consideration, and honor. This includes listening actively, acknowledging different perspectives, and refraining from personal attacks, harassment, or any behavior that diminishes another person's worth. Respect extends to privacy, boundaries, and the creative expressions shared within our community.

Living the PLUR life on Kandi Pad means:

Thinking before you post and ensuring your contributions align with our core values.
Being open-minded and willing to understand different viewpoints.
Offering help and support to your fellow Kandi kids.
Calling out negativity respectfully and contributing to a positive resolution.
Remembering that behind every username is a real person deserving of kindness.

Let the principles of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect guide every click, every comment, and every connection you make on Kandi Pad. This is what makes our community special, and it's up to each and every one of us to keep that flame burning bright!