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alatus_sidum_lupis • Oct 23, 2025 @ 12:08pm

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I have a few 1. It’s awesome to see people are doing so well! Granted, I’m not able to be in the venting forum so idk, but I’m pretty sure everyone is at least okay, and that’s amazing! <3 2. My mom (irl) is letting me wear more bracelets than she usually does! Idk if it’s just by her failing to check, but I don’t think it is. She usually says “no more than three” but I’ve been getting away with wearing like 5! (Rn I have 4 on, my clear holo star bracelet, my rainbow one, by black and rainbow one, and my purple paracord one my bestie gave me.) 3. BESTIEEEEEEE!!! I’ve been kinda struggling within having freinds (like real, not fake freinds who I can actually hang out with and my parents like.) butttttt the kids at my Sunday school and youth group (my people) are awesome! My one fren (bestie I keep yapping about- let’s call her rose cus thats the thing that comes to mind.) Rose especially is awesome- she’s just awesome! Idk how to explain it, she’s nice, kind, funny, she likes hugs and holding hands,(smth very important to me. I love holding hand with mah frens) and a lot of other stuff!!! I have a dance in November, and she’s gonna try and come with me!!! I’m so excited!!!!! I might invite her to kandipad so we can vibe and y’all can meet her. She’s awesome <3

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