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solstiale • Nov 23, 2025 @ 12:53am

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Cw for a bit of talking about mental illnesses/disorders and medication So uhh maybe some of you remember me maybe you don’t idk. I was active a couple months ago and while I won’t be super active I’m going to try and make an effort to interact more on here (if my forgetful ass can remember) because I love this community so much. Anyways this whole thing is basically me yapping about changes in my life that I’m happy about ig So I’ve been diagnosed and medicated (and in the process of a few more) for some of my more serious mental illnesses/disorders and my life has changed DRASTICALLY. Like I genuinely love living. It’s amazing. Like wdym I wake up EXCITED for school instead of staring at my ceiling contemplating my life choices? Idk I’m just really happy about it. I also have socially transitioned and use the guys locker rooms/bathrooms now and everyone’s been pretty chill/supportive! And I am in the process of trying to get HRT (I have my appointment next month). Also I’m getting contacts because I like the way I look without glasses better (and for cosplaying ngl). So yeah my life has taken a turn for the better and it’s pretty cool :)

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