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My summer challenge is to become a scene femboy!!!

koolayaduhPQC lvl 18 • Jun 19, 2026 @ 4:41am

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Feel like this would make all my alters happier since we can agree on the style lolz.Ive felt a bit more comfortable talking abt being a system sometimes too so that’s gud…I’m excited!!! At first I thought I couldn’t be one because I didn’t know the music I was listening to was actually scenecore not scene but then I heard millionaires and diskowarp and was like YESSSSS… any advice on being scene is appreciated as long as it’s not too gatekeepy, I can’t rlly do scene hair cus my hair is short cuz if it’s long I worry ppl will think I’m a girl. I’m also worried abt wearing too much kandi but I think it’s okay!! My style is more cute overall so I’d rather opt out of some areas or areas that may be triggering.Id love happy scene music recommendations too!

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