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How would I ask??? 😭

sagetheshortking • Feb 19, 2026 @ 4:43pm

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Ok, so a few months ago me and my mom were talking (I think abt Christmas present ideas) and we somehow got into the topic of cosplaying. She said she would support me, and would be willing to drive me and my friends to cons, but I said that I was a LITTLE interested in cosplaying 😭 I actually wanted to cosplay real bad, but now that it's a few months later, I think she might have forgot? She probably didn't, but how would you bring that up, *sitting in living room* "Can I get materials for a cosplay even though I never told you I want to do it?" I don't want it to be awkward but I want to tell her 😭 she does know I'm aware it can be expensive and there's a bunch of time crunches, and I have a big hand sewing kit and I got a freaking sewing machine for Christmas, so I could start a cosplay whenever I wanted to rn 😭 I want to cosplay Cynessa (or tescyn whatever you guys call her) from murder drones, and we have a mannequin (idky) that has a black wig with the perfect Cynessa length 😭 So could you guys tell me how I could tell my mom that, or just say how you told ur parents??? This is who I want to cosplay (idk if this the official art, but it's showing who I want to cosplay so it works)

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