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echothegoober • Aug 30, 2025 @ 8:27pm

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So I was on Pinterest right? Casually scrolling through my lgbt infested feed when out of nowhere I find a gender called “Censari” which is a identity where you feel very comfortable in the general neutral spectrum, but feel connection to femininity and masculinity and now I need help 😭 I’m also thinking I’m gyneromantic and not gynosexual…but anywho the point is I need help (flags attached to the forum: Left: gyneromantic Right: Censari) UPDATE ON THE CRUSH: I told her and her parents said that she can’t date, so she asked to stay friends, but last Friday, she said that she was having this weird feeling, and kept insisting that she’s aroace, but I highly doubt it. And, this girl, K, keeps harassing her, touching her in places like her waist and shoulders that she’s stated MULTIPLE TIMES not to do without permission. I told her to stay near me if she keeps it up, so I’ll update yall on it if I remember or if need be.

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