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pretty_cool_avian • May 06, 2025 @ 9:10pm

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hi beings ! i'm ell and i don't love pronouns being used on me but le/lim/lir are ok (fig. 1: example of le/lim/lir pronouns being used). i'm taken and probably not going to talk about my sexuality on here. i'm a therian and otherkin (fig. 2: kin list cus i'm too lazy to write it out). I am an intermediate/advanced kandi maker and I make custom patterns a lot (fig. 3-5: not all of my kandi)(if i kept all of it, i would have around double of what is in the photos, but alas, here we are). I am an equestrian, i'm disabled both mentally and physically, also i play flute (not very well), i speak 3 languages (pref. english), super obsessed with biology and science in general, and i love maximalisim. i make stuff with seed beads, embroider, crochet, do whatever craft i can get my grubby lil hands on tbh. oh and i block really liberally, bcs the internet is a scary place. if you are over 18 or your identity inherently harms anybody/thing (pedos, zoos, homophobes, racists, yk the drill) then DNI. special interest list time!: -kandi -crochet (hyperfixation) -collecting trinkets -Psych (the show) -horses (horse color genetics specifically) -Completely Arbortrary -Tales from the Stinky Dragon -June Henry -Accipitriformes (and birding in general) -Wintergatan my strawpage :33333 https://ellssupercoolawesomewebsite.straw.page/ anyways, that's a lot of reading for yall to do so props if you made it this far :)

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