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potatopawz • May 06, 2025 @ 1:19pm

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You can call me J or Tobie I go by he/him/them/them/xe/xem mostly, but any pronouns are fine. I really don't care that much. I'm boyflux and I label my sexuality as queer. I have a boyfriend and he's absolutely wonderful :3 I identify with the term "puppy boy" but I'm still trying to figure out whether it's more about my gender or a pet regression status. I'm a furry, but I'm not super active in the fandom. I just kinda hang out and vibe with my silly little dogboy drawings. I'm a huge nerd about creepypastas (I'm a professional Ticci Toby enjoyer and I take much pride in my position), Final Destination (R.I.P. IAN AND ERIN YALL WERE SO HOT), and my own ocs (I don't talk about them a lot because I don't wanna annoy people lmao) My favorite music artist is BoKKo and I talk about him a LOT because he's insanely underrated and I love him like he's basically my father 😼 If you have any questions about me, feel free to ask! I don't really talk much on this site anymore, but feel free to find me on other socials if you wanna yap :3 Most of my usernames are either PotatoPaws_OwO or TobieGoingFeral ^w^

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