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Story’s Time Again :D (TW: Narcissistic Traits, Homophobia)

chaarcreates • Jan 30, 2025 @ 4:22pm

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So P (my ex) was my best friend when I was at my old school. She knew I was lesbian (I used to be) and she supported cus she was bi but I soon began to have a crush and when I told her she slapped me and said “You’re a gay bish and there’s no way I’m gonna date you!” Then like a day later she said she was sorry but I wouldn’t forgive her then she started “crying” and tried to blackmail me. I was terrible at seeing red flags lol so I forgave her cus I felt bad so then we dated for abt two months until she hugged me (I have trauma with hugging) and it was inappropriate, triggering, and very uncomfortable. I tell her to let go and she says no so after that went on 2 times I gently pushed her off of me. She screamed “ I have a right to hug you cus we’re dating so suck it up” and I told her no I’m not gonna suck it up cus this was the third time she did this and then she slapped me (I got a black eye) and ran off. Yay.

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