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astroo • Nov 14, 2025 @ 10:01pm

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i haven't gotten on until now bc something happened and I'm scared.. basically my grandma fell, hit her head and was bleeding some, so my stepdad went to go take her to the hospital, but in the middle of the ride, my grandma started insisting she didn't want to go, so he brought her back home.. like, he cant force her against her own will, shes 71 but I wish she went because now I'm scared somethings gonna happen while shes asleep I had a small anxiety attack earlier when she fell.. I cant lose her shes so important to me shes my favorite adult in the house.. right above my mom so for the past 30 minutes, I've been trying to distract myself I made some kandi.. but I cant stop thinking about it I'm too fucking scared somethings gonna happen I cant lose her.. :[ idk what I'd do.. and FUCK- i have english homework that's due at 12.. I wont be able to finish itt :[ what a fun day today has been.. .. UPDATE its morning now and shes fine, her backs just hurting a bit thx for all the support guys <3

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