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yo1saki_kanad3 • Oct 22, 2026 @ 8:59pm

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ik we ourself arent the best at this... were a pretty big hypocrite.. but please, refrain from venting. all it does is trigger others, even if it helps you... pls just find somewhere else to vent... [elliot mclaine 🫐] its a blessing we as a community still have the forums, especially the unrelated sections. dont ruin this for everyone, please and thank you. in all, stop venting. this forum is not your social media app. while yes, it does have room for unrelated topics, that does *not* mean it can handle more serious things. and istg, if i see ONE MORE "/nav" or "not a vent" post and then its just a helpline needed situation?? im acc gonna freak out on some people. my only exception is people asking to talk off platform. not describing anything, not saying nothing, just saying that they need to talk off platform. that is how it SHOULD be done, if at all. to all those "proud venters", because i know theres atleast one on here: grow up. these forums are not your playhouse for you to do whatever the heck you want. "omg is this /tar??!?!?!" yes. targetted towards other users on here, and alters in our system. (surprise surprise, we arent perfect either.) im sick and tired of this and its been said before but we need to say it louder. -sword. 🗡-

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Keep it PLUR, always and in all ways!

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Thinking before you post and ensuring your contributions align with our core values.
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