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addressing the venting page getting taken down.

deleted_user • Oct 20, 2025 @ 4:34pm

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I know I am not a big presence on here, but I feel like I should address this anyway. I am not upset about the page getting taken down. I'm really not. SO many people are having mental health issues and are having a safe space to vent, which is AMAZING don't get me wrong, but it was having a mental toll on others. One of the reasons I slipped back into bad habits was because of the forum. I know a LOT of you don't have safe spaces to talk, but you can find places and websites meant for that. There is also I think a lot of misinformation, I'm not naming names, about $uicide and more. This site was meant to be a place for kandi patterns, not online thearpy. I love all of y'all (i'm southern lol) and I want everyone to stay safe. I am for this change. I hope everyone has a nice day/night and really takes in what I'm saying and not comment rude and nasty things out of anger/sadness. From, Kasper <3

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