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Am I in the wrong?

urdailywcuerockstar • Nov 08, 2025 @ 4:54pm

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This is my first time posting on the forum so pls be kind! Anyways, I need some help on whether I'm in the wrong. So me and my friends are really into story and comic making, we have several series and I have my own little "studio" that everyone is apart of. Now the problem here is that one of my friends is making a new story. It includes our whole friend group and she was explaining everyone's parts in it. Now I got a minor/side character which I don't mind at all! Except she said the 4 main characters were herself, friend 1, friend 2, and a character in a game. When she was explaining it she refered to her, friend 1, and friend 2, as the "og group" even though I had been friends with them for a while. An it hurt bcs in a bunch of other stories they make fanart of the three of them and I'm left out. I feel like the fourth wheel. So am I the problem? Srry this was long, I'll will probably put updates during the week to see what else happens.

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