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katsukiswifePQC lvl 24 • Aug 19, 2026 @ 6:59pm

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i wanna try soulbonding but the catch is that i have multiple f/os and also i feel like it would be complicated 💔 idk how to explain apparently its linked to tulpamancy and meditation from what im understanding, which i am pretty familiar with. its just such an odd concept to me, like wdym your f/o (or i guess if your soulbonded, s/o as you view it as a real relationship) talks to you and communicates you through headspace and you guys are able to interact stop it stop being cute together it doesnt help that im sleep deprived and stuff im reading is going through one ear and out the other, yk?? anyways im gonna make some kandi PLEASE GUIDE ME 😢😢😢😢💔 edit : it also reminds me of in-system relationships in a way, so maybe its a very similar concept??? all i know is headspace, fictional but autonomous, you view them as a real partner, and its mutual feelings and other universe connection bs

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