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BRO OMG (Kinda a vent, but not too bad)

hehe_kandifreak11883 • Jan 23, 2026 @ 5:31pm

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Soooo I still have J's hoodie. I tried to give it back to him today. I told him to meet me in a specific hallway, and I waited there until **I** was late to class. I wrote him a ***4-PAGE PAPER*** on why I was sorry, AND THIS MAN HAS THE AUDACITY-- HE ***NEVER*** SHOWED UP! I **WASTED** *MY* time WRITING, STAYING UP LATE, CRYING cuz I felt like shit, ***JUST*** for him to not even show up. RAH! I'm *SO* pissed. Like, it's not a nice hoodie, it's an old Nike hoodie, it's just black with the logo across the front, but I *DON'T* want it, yk?? This is why I *really* hope that M likes me back, because I ***KNOW*** dang well that he's gonna treat me better, he's so kind to me already, and he doesn't let his friends bully me. That's besides the point. GOD I HATE MEN ***(NO OFFENSE TO THE MEN/BOYS/PEOPLE WHO IDENTIFY AS MALE HERE BTW!!!)*** UGH Anyways, I had to say it somewhere, I'm sorry guys. Thanks, all! Love youuuu *~3m0*

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