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Can we like not be so rude? I need to say something about this..

system_of_a_down_lover2 • Oct 21, 2025 @ 6:38am

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So last night there was this forum comment I saw and like the comments were just giving their opinion and some were not but in the ones where they were giving an opinion the creator was like cussing them out and there was one where they were stating their opinion and they said some REALLY hurtful things. I get that they were trying to build the community up but you brought it down real quick. And this is taking no offense to anyone. Like I just got out of the hospital for trying to commit and this is what I come back to. Just. Pure. Hate. and it makes me sad that people may read their notifications and just see that Its the post where it says something Abt y'all are gonna degrade me for this and the creator has a Miku on the front cover and it was last nights post. It was saying something Abt we shouldn't vent {Sincerely, Remi} P.S. I love you Astroo

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