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m00n_r4v3n • Apr 06, 2026 @ 11:10am

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we want to make some clarification of what a system is, and what a lot of other identities are so y'all aren't confused. System: A system is someone who has DID. It can be undiagnosed, or diagnosed. They sometimes prefer to go by "we" or "us" and don't like to be called "you". When someone says that they are a system, that means that they have multiple distinct personalities or completely different people in one body. Therian: A Therian is someone who identifies WITH an animal on a spiritual, non physical level. They do not identify as an animal. Therians usually believe that they had a past life as an animal, and/or will become an animal when they die. Some people think that being a therian is a religion, which is NOT TRUE. Some therians do quadrobics (running on all fours and wear masks and tails, but that doesn't define being a therian. you don't have to have gear or do quads to be a therian, that just helps some therians connect with their identity and enjoy it. Furry: A furry is a person who wears fursuits and is fond of anthropomorphic animals. Furries are cosplayers and have no spiritual connection to animals like Therians do. Hypers3xual: People who are hypersexual are normally fond of sexual references and have moments where they do sexual actions or think sexual things. Doing actions like this is uncontrollable and many people feel regret after doing it. Hypersexual people are not "gross". They can't control what they do. plz tell us if we got anything wrong.

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