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...does any other touch starved person do this too.. (serious not silly)

jax_with_kandi • Sep 16, 2026 @ 11:02am

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(edit: like im being dead sirious.. ik i joke around a lot but im not being funny this time.. i feel bad..) okay so does any touch starved person who has like.. lets say a fav fictional character or smth.. but do they like.. pretend that character is next to them? or like.. lean onto a kind of big plush (i have a torso sized plush that is of pikachu but its the exact same size of a torso which doesnt help but also helps so much) and pretend that ur like.. laying next to/ on them? or like.. put ur opposite hand on the opposite side of ur waist and pretend its them..? ... i just cant help it rlly.. :[ im touch starved, but every time some one touches me, even my best friends or people i know, i get this rlly bad tingle and i scratch my skin for like.. several minutes straight just to (try to) get the feeling off.. the character i think of every time is jack kennedy from dsaf... yes, ik i talk abt dsaf and fnaf a lot, but its the only things that make me comfterble rlly.. and also jack makes me feel better... eugh.. (EDIT) aparently back in covid people where doing this one trend because everyone was touch starved, where they put their hands on the opposite sides of their face, like left hand on right side, and right hand on left side of face, and it would make their brain feel like some one is holding their face and some reason some people would cry, it doesnt work for me... now time to go cry for a diff reason aka being touch starved and not abt the hand thing cus it DOESNT FREEKIN WORK FOR ME.

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