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d1n0_ax3l • May 03, 2026 @ 12:41pm

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Today in church my pastor said "Marriage is between a man and a women to form a commitment and have kids" Like dude marriage is between 2 consenting adults that love each other so they can share their love in commitment and marriage doesn't mean consent and doesn't mean they owe you s-x. I don't rly like my preacher anymore... Edit: he also is uneducated on like everything. Like the only history book he's read is the bible bro! He also mocked and laughed at other cultures for thinking other things when they had nothing to prove their thoughts were wrong anyway. I'm so sick of going to that church. I'm volunteering to help out with the kids mostly so I don't have to listen to the sermon (I also love helping the kids anyway so yay) I wanna educate him on all this soooo bad dude!!! One day I'll say something abt his shit (I'm also listening to SCUMBAG by NOAHFINNCE while writing this and that song is a dis at Transphobes so suck it lol)

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