final update on the boyfriend situation. (not a vent)

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IF YOU HAVENT READ PT1 AND PT2: PT1: https://kandipad.com/forum/miscellaneous/i-need-advice-not-a-vent-83440952 PT2: https://kandipad.com/forum/miscellaneous/update-on-the-whole-bf-situation-advice-83581534 I texted him again off my friends phone for him to, for the last time, unless he wanted to contact me again, check the google doc. which in response to that he ended up blocking them too, so here we are. I am giving him a few days, but am no longer claiming him as my boyfriend, as much as it hurts, it is unhealthy to hold onto someone who obviously doesn't want to be considered that. I ended up typing out a paragraph saying, "since i haven’t gotten a response, i am taking this as you broke up with me (really immaturely btw), and will no longer claim you as my boyfriend. If this was a mistake just say something and my response depends on your response. I just wanted clarification and got hurt in the process of trying to do so. I will check the doc for the next few days but after that, i am done. I have been trying to contact you for almost two weeks now with no response and im done trying to chase after someone who is obviously avoiding me. If you have anything to say just say it please." if I don't get a response after this, I am done. I am tired of running after someone who is avoiding contact. it hurts knowing that was the HEALTHIEST relationship I had ever been in too. anyways, if I get a response, I will let y'all know. edit: if I told you the time had been longer than about 2 weeks, I'm sorry I have bad perception of time.
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