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barf_bagginz • Nov 27, 2025 @ 12:31am

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i was watching a gameplay with my siblings and i took my hoodie off cuz i was hot, and my sis saw my binder and asked what it was, so i lied and told her "it keeps me warmer at night" and she believed it until my LITTLE BROTHER said "no it's that thing that shrinks your b00bies you told me" and i was so fucking pissed so i asked him why tf he'd tell because i specifically told him not to tell anyone and he just responded with "cuz i'm not a liar, unlike you" so i left and now I'm pissed and wanna do something that i definitely shouldn't. (and before you defend my brother because he's young, he's in a fine grade in elementery school and has been heavily influenced by my christian father OKAY EDIT. I JUST HEARD MY DAD IN THE KITCHEN TELLING MY MOTHERFU.CK1NG SIBLING ABOUT MY SH, AND HIS EXCUSE WHEN I TOLD HIM NOT TO TELL THEM THAT!? "i'm trying to keep you safe" WHAT THE ACTUAL FVCK IS TELLING MY SISTER GONNA DO!? ARE WE ALL GONNA SUDDENLY HOLD HANDS AND SING KUMBAYA!? THAT'S **MY** BUISNESS, NOBODY NEEDS TO KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON WITH **ME**, I DON'T GIVE A FVCK IF HE KNOWS ABOUT IT, ALL I WANTED WAS FOR HIM TO KEEP IT A SECRET AND OFC HE BLEW IT! I'm so sorry I'm pissed, i need to calm down somewhere with Bamboo (The ESSA i have the strongest bond with)

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