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selfishmachines • Jan 07, 2026 @ 5:00pm

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hi so this isnt necessarily targetted at anyone, but damn why is EVERYONE a system nowadays??? like out of no where people will just become systems and it makes no sense to me. like, you werent a system yesterday, and now you are??? and this isnt like saying you cant just be hiding that youre a system and then tell people, thats not what im saying. what im saying is good lord suddenly everyone's a system. and i dont really care like do what you want but its kind of becoming like the whole tourettes thing, where no one with tourettes gets taken seriously anymore because everyone on the internet was like "guys... i- i actually have tics... i have tourettes.." or people being like "omg im so ocd i cant stand when things are crooked" like no. thats not what ocd is. it just makes me kinda upset because if there's another tourettes incident but with DID, then no one is gonna take DID seriously anymore. its already not known by people, and if people online make it known by faking it and mocking it then no one is ever gonna accept systems. like i said though you do you i guess but please dont ruin DID representation ok rant over thanks. -tony

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