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bakugous_boyfriend_joke • Mar 05, 2026 @ 6:59am

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Olly always knew i liked him (omg im so fkn obvious bro) and he was acting so chill bout it, well anyway i brought something up, but like chickened out and he was like, i already know, and we talked for a teeny bit and well we chill now, but the sad thing is..he likes my friend and well she likes him back but A. When i did like him (and she knew) she still liked him and B. Shes got a bf, but i talked with them both and she said that if she does date him, shes going to leave him (not olly her current bf) and like, honsetly i cant stop them from liking eachother OR dating, the only thing i can do is be supportive, but it just makes me sad, ive never been rejected, ive only dated once and just....): but the thing i call a win is me olly and my friend, we chill so ig thats good....? *sigh* i just feel a bit sick XC, and take a Moto_Cozy pic

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