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nyx_patterns • Nov 20, 2025 @ 12:47am

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Sorry I haven't been on lately I've been struggling. No one ever notices me struggling they just act like I have character flaws. its not easy either with strict parents. I feel like I'm in a tiny cage with no freedom and like im being watched. I've done things behind my parents backs for years its my way of touching that one bit of world I would have never known if I hadn't done those things. Im also always scared of messing up I really struggle with math and doing repetitive things with my ADHD. I just cant focus and take it in. Being a night owl and staying up late bc I have insomnia also isn't always easy. I also hate change I like things to be repetitive but change is necessary my sensory issues have also really affected me. My parents have also in the past told things that should have never been said to people outside of our family. Im a firm believer in what is said here stays here. I have many routines and when things change without me knowing I get a lot of meltdowns. If you did message me I'll be going though them and I will get back to you asap EDIT(I don't want anyone to feel ignored sorry if I miss it I'll get though more tomorrow)

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