Log In

Create!

I don’t even know anymore (probably a lot of TWs)

deleted_user • Nov 19, 2025 @ 2:18pm

E

For context real quick me and my friends joke flirt (it’s nothing weird just jokes that we’re all fine with) but I mainly do this with one of my friends because she does this the most. Today I was standing outside and this friend walked up behind me and started trying to give me back shots and later she kept grabbing my hips and i was so uncomfortable, I still am and this happened almost 2 hours ago. I don’t want to go back tomorrow because she’s in all my classes so I’m with her all day and I can’t avoid her, I’m scared she’ll do it again. She also keeps trying to hurt herself in class and I sit next to her in one class and she kept doing it and I’m scared it’ll cause me to do stuff again, I’m gonna try so so hard not to but idk if I can be around her anymore because of these things but I can’t avoid her and I don’t know what to do.

6 181

Replies 7

Keep it PLUR, always and in all ways!

This isn't just a suggestion, it's the very heartbeat of Kandi Pad. We are a community built on the unbreakable foundation of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect, and that spirit must shine through in every interaction, every post, every connection you make here.

Here's how we live and breathe PLUR on Kandi Pad:

Peace is our intention: We strive to create a calm, positive, and drama-free space. Disagreements should be handled respectfully and constructively, focusing on understanding rather than conflict. Let's be mindful of our words and actions, ensuring they contribute to a harmonious environment.
Love is our connection: We embrace empathy, kindness, and compassion for one another. Celebrate each other's joys, offer support during tough times, and remember that we are all part of the Kandi Pad family. Prejudice, hate speech, and negativity have no place here.
Unity is our strength: We value inclusivity and celebrate the diversity of our members. Regardless of background, beliefs, or interests, we come together through our shared appreciation for the Kandi culture and the spirit of connection. Let's build bridges, not walls, and learn from one another.
Respect is our foundation: We treat everyone with courtesy, consideration, and honor. This includes listening actively, acknowledging different perspectives, and refraining from personal attacks, harassment, or any behavior that diminishes another person's worth. Respect extends to privacy, boundaries, and the creative expressions shared within our community.

Living the PLUR life on Kandi Pad means:

Thinking before you post and ensuring your contributions align with our core values.
Being open-minded and willing to understand different viewpoints.
Offering help and support to your fellow Kandi kids.
Calling out negativity respectfully and contributing to a positive resolution.
Remembering that behind every username is a real person deserving of kindness.

Let the principles of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect guide every click, every comment, and every connection you make on Kandi Pad. This is what makes our community special, and it's up to each and every one of us to keep that flame burning bright!