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k4s4n3_t3t0 • Nov 19, 2025 @ 1:08am

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ok so when i was rlly young my dad used to spank me nd my brother [he doesnt anymore but the memory last yk] nd he got better and was rlly nice 4 like a couple years but like as soon as my brother turned 10 he got worse, like he wouldnt spank us but he would yell at us for no reason nd then brush it off nd say "sorry" he barely meant it nd he would do that like every time we did something even a little rude nd most of the time wouldnt say sorry at all. ok back to the present just this week hes been yelling at me to interact w/ the family more nd take off my headphones nd be present in life nd to clean my "messy ass room" he says that its bugging him nd my rooms "never clean" nd to try harder nd shit like that. today he yelled at me for having paint on my floor thats been there for literal years and hes just telling me to clean it today like what? nd then in the middle of me cleaning he told me to clean up the paint which i was doing nd then told me to talk to him in his room and started yelling at me that even the sight of his headphones pissed him off and some random shit nd then it was to much nd i cvt myself again. im sorry this is stupid nd too long im sorry:[

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