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IM BACK! (also small life update)

b1ueat1as • Sep 07, 2026 @ 10:53pm

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He everyone I am back. I’m sorry I went away for the past few days, I was in Seattle for one of my cousins bar mitzvahs. Off topic but it was super fun! I had never been to one before (bc I’m not Jewish) and had no idea what to expect. But anyways I’m back now (If I’m currently working on a commission I plan on contacting you either tonight or tomorrow morning to get your ok with what I have done so far before do line art and color it I SWEAR I DIDNT FORGET YOU) Now my small update: I am apagender now! I have been trying to figure out my gender for like a year now, and every time I think I found it I realize it’s not me. That was just because I genuinely didn’t care about my gender or how I was perceived at all. If you ever hear me say I’m nonbinary that’s because in true apagender fashion I don’t care enough to explain what being apagender is to everyone I meet. So yep I’m apagender now and also use any pronouns now (had a small preference for they/them)

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