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I’m so tired

deleted_user • Nov 05, 2025 @ 8:22pm

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So yesterday I asked one of my friends something and he said because I thought you would cry if I didn’t, I know he wasn’t being serious because it was about something dumb but it kinda hurt because I try so hard not to cry in front of people and he’s never even seen me cry I’ve never even made it seem like I would cry about something. Idk yall it was really f#cking dumb. One of my other friends is really “interested” in my relationship with my gf (idk how to describe it) and almost every time he sees us together he makes scissor motions with his hands and that’s not even the weirdest thing he did. I was in PE just standing there and he started asking me questions about how lesbian $ex works, he’s a straight cis guy in middle school why the f#ck does he want/need to know this. Anygays j think im over a month clean from sh, so yayyy

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