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deleted_user • Oct 20, 2025 @ 5:09pm

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i kinda like fighting tho but like knowing im right or like friend fighting w/ friend sover useless topics like waffles/pancakes (ITS WAFFLES BUT ILL MAKE ANOTHER POST ABT IT) like i just fought with sillyvinalla707 bc they said there transphobic and they got mad bc i asked them why and they said they dont understand it and me and urlocalgooberhope and anything_fandoms tried to convince them and defending eachother against them . they kept saying how its their believe and we shouldnt convince them other wise and how i should keep it to myslef even tho they weren't. also got really mad when i said to atleast try to understand it. (https://kandipad.com/forum/art/ts-is-dumb-18322016) for "their side" anyway yuh i dont think im ok. its not from the fighting either. anyway yuh byeee edit- not the yelling fighting that makes me cry and have a panic attack ngl

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