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astroo • Aug 17, 2026 @ 11:03pm

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so. theres this one person, ill call her o. i met her thru my (now ex ill explain why if u wanna know) bfs discord server. i decided to start talking to her cuz she said smth in the venting channel about constantly losing friends, so i offered to be her friend, and we bonded VERY quickly. we were great friends, until one fateful day, on march 30th, like 2-3am my ex bf, and a few friends had decided to block O because she had made one of our friends hella uncomfortable. ( we were all on call) i, had went thru with this too cuz i was half asleep and didnt want anyone else to be upset with me, so i made the stupid choice of blocking her. and when i tell u how bad i felt for the next month, it was bad, i still feel super bad and miss her alot. the worst part? i promised her id never leave. never. and i broke it. i broke a promise. i hate breaking promises. soo much. so last week, i decided to add her on roblox, to my surprise, not even 4 minutes later, she accepted. thing is, we are in DIFFERENT AGE GROUPS. FUH U ROBLOX. so. today, i posted a video on youtube about it. i tagged her. and now i gotta be patient and hope she responds. tbh i just needed to get this off my chest to someone, so yah, here i am, yapping. HOLY THAT IS ALOT. oops. you guys dont need to read all of that if u dont wanna 😅

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