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katsukiswifePQC lvl 19 • Feb 03, 2026 @ 10:03pm

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{ THIS IS NOT TARGETTED WHATSOEVER. I PROMISE. I DONT MEAN TO HURT ////ANYONE//// WITH THIS FORUM!! } ok. so, what ive noticed, is that.. theres been alot of dating on this website?? wait, please dont throw tomatoes at me.. hmo. why are we putting simple internet safety aside to say we're looking for a partner that you dont even know irl??. ive never online dated before, so im quite unexperienced with this discussion.. but id still like to bring my opinion into view. not saying this bc im a mod, either. but im genuinely concerned. {if no_one or other users related to the topic of online dating r reading, this is not about you. i dont mean to call anyone out. there are many users ive came across with 'looking for gf/bf/partner' in their bios.} i feel like we're putting our guard down too easily. this platform is a safe space for children (i hope), queers, people of other identity, and many more. however, most people are minors on this website. sorry for yapping. my point is.. why?? if youve guys never heard eachothers voice, seen eachothers face.. how do you know your the same age?? ai has been getting advanced. and a grown person could steal pictures of children and send them. {NOT accusing.}. just putting this out there. sorry if half of this didnt make sense; my brain is fried and im mentally and physically drained. i love you! 💞 /plat

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