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kinda hate how venting isnt allowed (tw: opinion, rant)

gender_envy_ceo • Jun 30, 2026 @ 8:32pm

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imma start this by saying yes, i completely understand how it was dangerous to everyone. i get that and understand. this is also just a rant. now dont attack me, ok? ok. for us, talking is one of our coping skills weve been trying to practice. it legitimately takes effort and practice and will to talk about our feelings to others. earlier, i couldnt talk to my friends irl. because i dont have any LMAO. i cant talk to my parents because im not ready for that yet. i cant talk on here because its not allowed. i dont have many places left to go. im not allowed on social media. the only place i can talk is with my therapist, and i have to be legit PRAYING she wont tell our mother. i also only see her once every two weeks. it was actually a miracle i could see her today. oh! and if i text a new number, say 988 for example, it sends a notification to my mother and she'll know. idek where to go now. i cant download apps without her permission either. just saying. thats just my opinion tho. dont attack me for having a viewpoint pls. ☆ || {天馬司!!} 💫|| ☆

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