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the_cooljayk1d • Oct 11, 2026 @ 6:58am

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So I finally have had my first crush on a boy since fourth grade lolll he’s rllly cute and kinda has a streetwear and cute style and a rat tail and he’s doing color guard and IM doing color guard so that’s fun. We’re not talking but I hope we do. But bc I’m over her now ima say that I had a HUGE crush on one of my bsf what wouldn’t like me bc I’m not her type but oh well ! :p I finally talked to my irl bsf abt a lot of stuff and I’ve been feeling down but a lot better since I talked abt it. I’ve also been crying a lot more from stress ?? Like unusual for me cuz I don’t cry a lot but it’s comforting ig. But it’s betting a bit exhausting but I’m trying to see the light of it in that most random things lol :) IM FINALLY DOING COLOR GUARD AND ITS SO FRICKING FUN OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG IVE BREN WAITING FOR THIS MOMENT SINCE 8TH GRADE AND SMORES ON IT (im calling my crush smores on here now ig lol) BUT I LWK GOOD BUT ALSO BALLS BUT WHO CARES BUT CELEBRATION BUT HGK WEIRD IVE BRUSHED MY TEETH AT LEAST ONCE A DAY FOR TWO MONTHS STRAIGHT AND NEARLY A YEAR CLEAN FROM $H !!!!!! MONTY PYTHON AND THE HOLY GRAIL I NEVER THOUGHT ID GET THSI FAR <33333 also my acne is getting better after a routine I changed to and I’m gonna be getting medication for it that should keep most of it away FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO Anyways I miss you all I hope you all have amazing days weeks and months bc you all deserve it. Eat ur fav snack soon and keep ur pillows cold <3

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