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no_one • Feb 10, 2026 @ 4:02pm

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I might spend less time on Kandi Pad over this week because I'm working on a strawpage :D!!! I also may take a mini break since some things are stressing me out,, but it's not nothing too serious <3!!! /gen/pos I love you all very much!! /p (Partners = /r) :OO This does not mean I'm quitting, I am just going to be a bit more offline than usual :P..!!1! Also, I have a little explanation for smth,, (/non vent/gen/info/) :// I can interact with people less than someone else,, even sometimes with my partners,, and I am very sorry!! :<< I don't mean to do it at all,, I just have a complex way of thinking and it affects my actions or what I do,, and I'm not trying to use it as an excuse,, it really creates problems, not just online.. :(( I'm not trying to say I'm supposedly 'insane',, I just have problems with myself, physically and mentally,, that can create issues in my life and to others!! :^ Ya'll can forgive me or not as you wish,, I am not trying to make anyone pity me or feel bad for me!! /gen I'm just saying sorry for the ways I can act at times and I really mean it!! <3 -Ash Small Edit/Message: This is not to diagnose myself,, this is just something I feel like and is not fully my identity currently,, and I will still refer to myself as a singular person than multiple for now.. (/gen/pos/info/help requested for topic/): I may be a system or have alters,, but I'm not confirming it because I don't know. If anyone can help me that'd be great! <3 /gen/pos If I do end up with this identity, or believe I am one and use pronouns to refer to multiple,, I am not trying to fake it or cause drama! I am just trying to figure out who I am, really.. (/gen/nm/info) Thank you all for reading this,, I care about each and every one of you <3!!! -Ash

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