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connorsn1yumeshipper • Feb 13, 2026 @ 5:09pm

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Tw: mentions of cults, ableism, homophobia, and transphobia , so there8s this organization called couples for Christ and I’ve looked into it deeper they’re trying to cover up their transphobia and ir’s so fucking dumb from what I’ve heard they said they are okay with trans people and accept them, however they want them to stop feeling dysphoric like fym stop being dysphoric that’s not so simple 💔 fuck they gon do pay for my testosterone? also they refuse to use they/them pronouns when referring to people and I’ll give an example while explaining it instead of he/she using gender neutral pronouns he/she will not. This is his/her decision and cannot be passed as not knowing the word. they also single out disabled people, and have an entire term called “Vulnerable adults.” I haven’t been able to do a deep dive since all of this was in school but some people who have been in it have said that it can have cult-like behaviors

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