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my mom and getting in a car crash

anxxxel • Oct 20, 2025 @ 3:51pm

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so first off my mom looked through my (flip)phone and she figured out i wore a dress to homecoming cuz pictures and also that im like fake flirty with all my friends and a living cupcakke remix and her being a conservative she wasnt too happy. she also saw that one of my friends made a b0mb threat JOKE, but b/c my mom takes that shit really seriously even if it is obvioulsy a joke so she reported it to the school and i spent 3 and a half hours in the office and i didnt even make the JOKE threat. my mom also threatened AGAIN to send me off to boarding school cuz im jsu that fucking terrible ig. Then that same day my mom and i got into a huge wreck after school. this car just came out infront of us and we t-boned them cuasing the other car to flip over and our truck(cuz my mom is a southern trucker) to get totaled. me and my mom went to the hospital and the people in the other car(an edlderly couple) had to be coptered out to a different hospital because of the severe trauma. my mom saw the man at the dealer and he had to get staples in his head but his wife was on a ventilator... tbh shit like this doesnt really effect me cuz i never even saw their faces and im not that sentimental but i have no damn idea how my mom will cope(especially if the woman dies) anyway so thats another traumatic experience to add on to the list.

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