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selfishmachines • Jan 08, 2026 @ 7:30pm

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cw for sexual content mentioned, vaguely. hi, i would just like to say that being overly sexual without taking into consideration if other people are comfortable with it is wrong. now, im not a child, so i will say that this is mostly about skate/@beebutgay. its fine to be like that, but you have to make sure the people you're around when acting that way are comfortable with it. please just take that into note. im not trying to cause drama. i just want it to be known that it makes some people (including us) uncomfortable when you moan on call or draw private parts on the whiteboard on call or something like that. i mean, its funny the first couple times, but it becomes very uncomfortable. and on that note, guys, please dont be afraid to set boundaries with people. in general, i mean. like, if youre uncomfortable with something, you have to speak up about it or it'll just keep happening. boundaries are good!!! its okay to set boundaries guys its not mean or rude or inconsiderate. side note skate please stop avoiding your problems. i dont mean this in a mean way, im trying to be respectful, but you cant just avoid your problems and hope they go away. its not gonna happen. -tony

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