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rant about gender dysphoria? (idk i kinda go off topic)

ur-favorite-loser • Oct 20, 2025 @ 6:57pm

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oh yeah i’m a trans dude i hate how people don’t see me for who i am i hate how people don’t refer to me correctly i hate how my body looks AND ITS SO FUCKING ANNOYING TRYING TO GET THINGS TO HELP WITH DYSPHORIA binders are so expensive and i have no idea how to ask my mom for one, and i know i’m too young and too broke to get top or bottom surgery. i’ve been trying to work out more but it’s not really working :/ and i have a hard time dressing “masculinity” because stereotypical masculinity is so goddamn boring. i wanna wear kandi and fishnets and tails and chains but “NOo0oO it’s so feminine!1!” also! (talk about packers so don’t read if you don’t like that) . . . . . . . . packers are so fucking expensive. and people don’t understand why we use them. they sexualize packers. and it’s so annoying. IM A BOY AND I WANNA HAVE A DICK ITS NOT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND. buauhkauygkauyfiytf and don’t even get me STARTED on animal packers “b-but it’s zoophilic” bitch you don’t even know what they means. “why do you even want that???” cuz i’m an animal and it helps with dysphoria “but it’s weird!” i don’t give a fuck

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