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rant about our bsf /neg

selfishmachines • Jan 12, 2026 @ 7:10pm

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guys idk if its the bpd but it seems like shes been ignoring us/avoiding us lately. we used to hang out eevery weekend but now she only talks to us when she doesnt have anyone else to talk to. and she always seems to have something to do over the weekends now. its rlly annoying , like i just wanna hang out with you dude. and also she complains all the time. like its legit so annoying. ill be like "dude im so tired " and she'll be like "same" like bro EVERY TIME. "im kinda upset haha" and she says "same" without even registering what we say. like the other day i said "i feel like shit" and she said "same" and then i was being all quiet and not saying anything and shes like "are you okay?" idk you tell me its almost like i just said i felt like shit ???????? damn its rlly annoying. its like we're her last choice nowadays but its whatever cuz she loves us i guess oml also she'll start randomly complaining about stupid shit when two seconds ago she was giggly and happy with her other friends. like dude quit complaining youre literally happy stop finding dumb shit to complain about. your life is so good, you have a mom and dad that love you, you dont get abused, you have a million clothes, a million beads, a million sketchbooks, art supplies, etc etc. she basically gets whatever she wants if she asks for it meanwhile im liteeraelly afraid to ask our mom for new toothpaste because im afraid she'll yell at us lol btw i dont expect comfort/adivice (although itd be appreciated) i just wanted to get this off our chest ughhh -tony

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