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(rant) Y'know what I hate the most?

ruihatoumow0-_yobu • Jun 24, 2026 @ 1:07pm

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When people, especially family members, walk into our room without our consent. And I know I'm basically allowing them to (since our door is always open and I'm scared to close it unless we're getting dressed or something), but still. It'd be nice if they asked. Like a few minutes ago, our grandmother was vacuuming (I hate the sound of a vacuum...), and all the sudden, she came upstairs and went into our room. Uhm, hello? Our door was left ajar, and she opened it all the way like she couldn't fit. 😦 Then she started vacuuming our room OUT OF THE BLUE...? Ahah...so I asked if I could vacuum our room, because I personally don't like it when people do things for me without context. It makes me kinda uncomfortable. Anyways! She said we could after the vacuums the stairs. When she finished, she walked back into our ROOM AND NEVER GAVE ME THE VACUUM CLEANER... 🫩 She still never put the door back or shut the lights back off btw. That's all I had to say- SORRY FOR THE BIG BLOCK OF TEXT

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