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reminder that forums AREN'T private!!

kitkatthesilly • Nov 25, 2025 @ 10:57am

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it baffles me that I need to say this, but you guys need to be so much safer!! you need to refrain from posting your school name or house address, because EVERYTHING on the internet is public. seeing how some of you on here behave like it's a group chat is kinda crazy, because anyone can open your forum. still seeing this is crazy, because this has been discussed quite heavily here, but harmful topics are not allowed here. those rules are a bit lighter in the venting & drama section, but still not allowed. while kp cares about you and your safety, you shouldn't be talking about how you are doing to intentionally harm yourself,, and stating it *publicly*!! my heart does go out to all of those who are aching, but we'd rather you get help instead of wallowing in your pain and posting about it. but if you do genuinely need help, go to real support systems that can help you, such as 988!! stay safe guys !! love you all :3

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