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astroo • Nov 23, 2025 @ 8:16pm

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could this month just get ANY worse? EVERYTHING is crashing down.... first, subspaces mom found out about him and Malachi because he freaked out. his mom found out about me liking him. and the part that Im most scared for is that malachi said he's gonna... (you can probably guess) if the parents found out about him and subspace and subspace said he's gonna do it too if Malachi does. I cant lose either of them, I don't like Malachi like I do subspace, but I'm still very close to him.. and subspace, its obvious. I love him so much. I'd fucking die for him... no joke. ugh. I'm just.. stressed. I hate this. all because of gravity and my fucking clumsiness.. yeah, its my fault. the parents had told subspace that I "told it all", and he freaked the fuck out, came out to his mom about being trans, (it wasn't a happy moment.. he was in tears..) and before that, a few days before, when his mom told him that I "told it all", he freaked out and said that I liked him, and he was dating Malachi.. I didnt say shit- except "I don't know.." (lying about knowing the meaning of relapsed so my mom wouldnt find out) and that my online father (on here) hasn't been on in around a month or so.. well, I'll keep you updated ig.

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