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marstheslug • Apr 06, 2025 @ 7:12pm

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trust my mum to make my tic disorder about her, she gets really bad motion sickness to the point where my constant head rolling makes her feel sick, so i had to do my best to stop it not because it would hurt my neck, not because it makes a horrible clicking sound that i should probably see a doctor about, but because it was making her feel “like she was on a boat”…. nice one mum 👍 THEN MY FRIENDS, i start biting my nails because she got loud for absolutely no reason (when i was trying to organise something with her but i forgot ONE detail about the plan therefor there was no plan but anyways that was a side rant) and she said “god do i have to listen to you crunching your nails and i ALSO have to put up with ****imitating my head tic****” like i’m sorry? you don’t have stabbing neck pains that immobilise you do you? you don’t want to cancel your plans because your going out with your friends family and they always think that you’re weird? you don’t have to put up with any of that? you don’t get to complain

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