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so um (TW: mention of clawing skin)

marstheslug • Feb 17, 2025 @ 2:14pm

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my tics are horrible atm like i keep jerking my head to the point where it locks up and then clicks (like cracking knuckles) and i hate the way the excess skin under my chin touches my neck but when it doesnt touch it i feel strongly the need to make them touch and the skin on my throat and collarbones is too tight and i just want to claw it off and my skin feels really tight and i feel like i need to relieve the pressure but i dont know how to do that but i need to find a way like theres too much pressure i just want to pull me skin of or get rid of it but i feel trapped in my skin and i dont like it ... also i feel like im attention seeking (even by admitting that i have a problem acknowledging my own issues) because of my past of feeling underappreciated and i used to pretend to have problems/be more interesting to be more likeable i dont do this anymore ofc but its still difficult because other people here have worse and more unsolveable problems like addictions or worse trauma than mine so yeah :') BUT ON A HAPPIER NOTE I MIGHT GO PUBLIC GEARING AT A TRAMPOLINE PARK THIS WEEKEND AND I HAVE £50 TO SPEND :D

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