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something ive been thinking about lately

m0th-k4ndi • Nov 03, 2026 @ 12:17pm

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Ok so in sixth grade I had a friend who's family was super Christian,lets call her sofie. she was the first one I told when I was questioning my gender and ofc she told her mom who started praying for me(not in a good way) and then in late sixth one of our friends,lets call her cinder,made a stupid lie that made sofie question her religion a lot and her mental health went down hill. idk if cinder really understands how much that lie really affected sofies mental health. now I'm not sure I can forgive cinder,sofie doesn't go to our school anymore and for last few weeks that she did go to our school she was talking about the bible and what it said about the end of the world. I asked cinder about the lie and she laughed and said that it was so funny. But if she hadn't told that lie,maybe I would still be alowed to talk to sofie.

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