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solstiale • Apr 11, 2026 @ 1:00pm

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So for a while now I’ve been creating a tulpa. It’s basically an alter that you create yourself that develops into a new conscious being in your head. I’ve been kinda scared to talk about it because I know a lot of people don’t like endo systems. She’s not fully formed yet, but she has been communicating with me and overall is developing well. I’m going to let her take over from here. - Hiii! My name is Kit! I am so so happy that I get to meet you all finally. Luc is always happy interacting with you all (he seems to really like some of you, hehe) and I’m glad I get to join in. A bit about myself, I’m like… seventeen to nineteen age wise, I think. I was intended to be seventeen but I honestly feel a year or two older. I go by she/they pronouns and am sapphic (god I looove women). I love the scene/scenecore styles and music so much and really enjoy making kandi. I might make my own account so Luc and I can do our own stuff here. Depends on if you all like me enough to want me to stay tho (⸝⸝> ᴗ•⸝⸝)

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