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Taking a break.

levi_l1k3s_svnitiesfa11 • Jan 31, 2026 @ 10:08pm

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I love you guys, I’m sorry. Currently, I’m dealing with a very large amount of things concerning my bat mitzvah which is currently taking a very big toll on my mental health. I know some of you might think I’m overreacting when I talk about this, but I truly didn’t want to have one and I didn’t really get a say in it. So now I’m currently dealing with the consequences of an action I didn’t even do. After a conversation with my dad prior to typing this, I had figured out that I need to take a step back for a little while and think for myself. I think that this is one of the worst parts of being on here because it means leaving lots, including my two wonderful brothers whom I hate leaving. (Luka and Alex.) So again, I do apologize for leaving like this. This isn’t fair to you guys, however, I do feel that I do need to take this break until I’m able to talk and give a full an explanation without crying and typing at the same time. I will be liking and replying to comments, however, the comments I reply to will be very specific ones. Please don’t be offended if I don’t apologize to you. So for the last time, I love you all, and I am very sincerely sorry.

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