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i_lik3_yu0r_fing3rn4ils • Oct 21, 2026 @ 1:12pm

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So they are all either pictures or references to the movie Fanfic. It is a Polish movie about a trans man figuring out that he is trans. Leon is my profile picture. He is the love protagonist of Toszek. This guy is openly gay and he is like, "I am gay but my parents kicked me out of the house for it, And now I live in this abandoned warehouse" and stuff like that. It is a little bit sad at first because he is in love with the toxic gay guy who is just bad because of his past. But my banner is right after they kiss for the second time, I think right after Toszek comes out. I wouldn't recommend reading it because it has mentions of, S3lf/h@rm, V0m1t1ng, S4bst@nc3 @b4s3, Self-esteem and image issues, [As you can see in the actual paragraph I wrote above this] homophobic parents and @b4s3.

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