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deadkittyboy • Feb 19, 2026 @ 8:44pm

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[note that nothing is meant in a rude or mean way at all] hey, noticed what's going on w u and the other asher. wanted to see if ur doing alright. ik ur not cheating or trying to cheat on ash, but u have to also remember that what happened w him, he finds it hard to believe u. I do gonna say tho, y not block the person texting u? even if u can't, have another person do it 4 u. not being mean at all or in any way, but it's obviously the person is making u uncomfortable. if u don't want them talking 2 u, then u have to block them. I get that u don't know how 2 say no, I've been there and so has a cousin of mine, but what the person is doing isn't making u feel safe. ash is right, the person can think ur leading them on because u haven't blocked or said anything 2 them abt it. I do hope u get better axl and block the person n u and ash get everything sorted. u don't gotta reply or answer me, jst like the post so ik u read this - asher

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